Jun 17
#615 Happy Father’s (without Male Factor Infertility) Day
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“The minute you think of giving up, think of the reason why you held on so long.”
Don’t let another holiday or day go by feeling depressed and sad about infertility. Today, take your future baby daddy out for brunch (don’t order the scrambled eggs); buy him a gift (we recommend vitamins to improve his lazy ass sperm); plan a special outing together (honey, let’s go to that beautiful park today and I’ll let you inject the fertility needle into my belly); or simply spend some time just enjoying each other (honey, you are still not allowed to go into the hot tub).
…Or just hold him tightly and remember how lucky you already are in that moment.
On Friday, one of my coworkers asked if we had any pets…”Any dogs?”…”no”…”Not even a fish?”…”nope”…”Well, it trying to figure out a way that I can tell your husband congratulations for Fathers day”…”Im still trying to figure that out too”…*awkward stare*
“(we recommend vitamins to improve his lazy ass sperm)” => HILARIOUS!!
I found myself thinking last FD that he would be a father this year. *Sigh*, here’s hoping he will be able to celebrate next year.
have a problem and came here looking for advice, you can delete this comment if you wish I’m not trying to be offensive if I come across that way. I’m 18 years old and engaged. My fiance and I own a house and I plan to be a stay at home mom, he’s an accountant and he’s 25. We’ve been together for 3 years and started trying for a baby about 6 months ago, I’m currently 5 months pregnant. We had our first baby when I was 15 by accident. His aunt is 41 years old and has been TTC for 20 years . She came down for Easter back in April where I announced I was pregnant with our second baby and planning to get married in October. She busted out crying right there at the table. I didn’t realize this would affect her that way until then. I feel so awful. Ever since then she hasn’t tried calling my fiance or anything. I want to apologize but I have no idea what to say. What should I say?
Oh dear. It’s been two years – two Father’s Days past – when I keep thinking, “Oh maybe this year, I will have some good news on Father’s Day!” (Fantasizing about telling him that he’s going to be a father, on Father’s Day — cue in Hollywood happy ending music). But life is constantly slapping me in the face every time AF comes. “HA! You think you’d have it that easy huh?”
That’s how I am feeling right now. AF just came again this morning and I am bawling my eyes out.