We all know one of these women.
The ‘insensitive infertile’ is a woman who seems to forget she’s ever had a problem getting pregnant. During her infertility struggles, she moaned and complained (similar to us) and later went on to have a normal pregnancy. She now rejoices in her pregnancy and seems to forget that you are still having troubles. She makes snide comments and even jokes around with you about your situation. She announces her pregnancy with glee and spends most of your conversations bragging about her baby shower and her new Bug-a-boo.
The insensitive infertile might have PCOS or Endometriosis or perhaps unexplained infertility. She is just like us but the only difference is she also has a short term memory. You simply cannot believe her insensitivity knowing that she had experienced it herself. You truly understand insensitivity from women who never experienced infertility but from someone who has?
The good news is you will never be an ‘insensitive infertile’ when you get pregnant. You have a very good memory – just ask your husband and that big-breasted woman he was ogling on your vacation 4 years ago.