If only someone could look into your future and tell you that one day you would be pregnant, you could just relax. You could relax knowing that you will soon get your miracle but until then you have no confirmation that you will be able to conceive.
It’s like having your first boyfriend. You wasted months or even years crying after he dumped you. If only you knew that your wonderful husband would soon arrive, you would have enjoyed being single much more. And you would have never wasted time crying over ‘what’s his name.’
One of the worst things about infertility is not knowing. Not knowing when you’ll conceive or even if you can conceive in the first place. So let me be your crystal ball and see into your future. You will conceive, you will have lots of babies, you will lose 10 pounds and you will find a job that you love. How do I know this? I know that if your real ‘pregnancy plan’ had worked out and you already had your babies, you would not be in the same place you are today. Maybe because of your infertility issues, you ended up starting a new job or a new business or moving to a new home or going on a great vacation. Things that you would have never done if you were pregnant when you wanted to be.
Infertility sucks but your life doesn’t have to.