If only someone could look into your future and tell you that one day you would be pregnant, you could just relax. You could relax knowing that you will soon get your miracle but until then you have no confirmation that you will be able to conceive.
It’s like having your first boyfriend. You wasted months or even years crying after he dumped you. If only you knew that your wonderful husband would soon arrive, you would have enjoyed being single much more. And you would have never wasted time crying over ‘what’s his name.’
One of the worst things about infertility is not knowing. Not knowing when you’ll conceive or even if you can conceive in the first place. So let me be your crystal ball and see into your future. You will conceive, you will have lots of babies, you will lose 10 pounds and you will find a job that you love. How do I know this? I know that if your real ‘pregnancy plan’ had worked out and you already had your babies, you would not be in the same place you are today. Maybe because of your infertility issues, you ended up starting a new job or a new business or moving to a new home or going on a great vacation. Things that you would have never done if you were pregnant when you wanted to be.
Infertility sucks but your life doesn’t have to.
Thank you thank you thank you!
If I had been pregnant when I wanted to be, I would have gone on maternity leave at still worked at a job I hated. Instead, I decided to start my own business and quit that dumb job. I would have never even considered starting a business if I was pregnant. Who knows where you'll end up!
Wow – great post! I agree that the 'not knowing' is one of the most difficult things about infertility. This has been one of my biggest issues and I thank you for showing the positive side of it!
great post! i am going on vacation next week to an amusement park, and your right, if i was pregnant i wouldnt be able too!
ha ha i see tons of girls on babygaga with these psycic predictions..and i am a christian so i dont believe its right to have my "cards read" but i can understand wanting to feel like you will eventually have children..
good post.
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Amen my friend…there is a reson for everything and although we might not like it, we're not in control. If we knew everything we'd never appreciate, feel shock, thrill or hope. Such evils are also such blessings.
Hugs and have a great week.
Thanks for this – im going to remember that line: Infertility sucks but life doesn't have too.
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so true! my husband and I planned a vacation to Hawaii…we had flyer miles…but we never would have had we been pregnant already! you are so wise:)
I agree that the not knowing is the WORST part! If I only knew…I wouldn't waste all this money on doctors visits and wondering and waiting…I could just relax. But I hope you are right and I WILL have lots of babies and lose 10 pounds (or maybe 15…) and find a job I love!!!
Thanks for all of your posts.
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This blog entry is very true but hard to live by. When I look back at this past year and how much it has really sucked, it is hard to pick out those “this wouldn’t have happened if . . .” moments. But one really good thing that did happen for us was that we spontaneously decided to adopt 2 kittens, and we absolutely love them!